4 Life skills every kid needs to know

A friend of mine (mother to one child) was in my kitchen yesterday. Three of my 4 boys were running in circles (not kidding), causing the usual hubbub. She mentioned that she didn’t know how I “do it all.” I laughed and said I didn’t know either.

But then I got to thinking. Life is pretty crazy for me a lot of the time, and I won’t pretend I’ve got it all figured out. Mostly it’s God’s grace that gets me through each day. But there’s a lot my husband and I have done with our kids to keep our sanity make things run a little more smoothly. Affiliate links are present.

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Since our homeschool days, we’ve looked for opportunities to teach our kids life skills and have them help with the running of the household. Now that they’re getting older, that work is really paying off.

Here are 4 life skills for kids that make a real difference in our home right now.

1. Kids need to know how to do laundry

My kids have been involved in doing laundry from a very early age. Laundry in a family of 6 piles up fast! Even though we can now do half as many loads thanks to the new washer that I got such a great deal on, everything still needs to be folded and put away. My 2 oldest sons are completely responsible for their own laundry and it saves me hours each week! The younger 2 kids are still in training.

Takeaway: have your little kids help you with the laundry and transition them do doing their own laundry when they’re about 9 or 10.

Resource: My simple laundry system

2. Kids need to know how to cook

Besides laundry, these kids get hungry every. single. day. Funny how that works. And since we aim for a healthy diet, that means lots of cooking and food prep. So the more help I can get in the kitchen, the better.

My kids started out doing simple kitchen jobs like setting the table, washing produce, and baking with me. Now the older ones are quite capable of cooking some favorite dishes.

Takeaway: invite your kids into the kitchen to cook and don’t worry about the mess. Cooking together is a time you can do something fun AND useful with your kids.

Resource: Kids Cook Real Foods e-Course

We’ve been going through the Kids Cook Real Foods course by Katie Kimball of Kitchen Stewardship. This course has really energized our time in the kitchen! Katie is such a fun mom and an amazing teacher.

Are you looking ahead to what life skills your child needs to know? Life skills aren't just important for adulthood - they're a huge help to busy moms right now! See this post for ideas on what to teach your kids plus some free resources.
Even 4 year olds can learn proper cutting skills. My son loves to prepare his own snack.

My 8 year old was mesmerized by the lesson on sharp knife skills. You should have seen the mountain of veggies that he chopped that day! Even the 4 year old got into the act slicing up banana after banana with a butter knife.

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3. Kids need to know how to do chores

Besides cooking, cleaning house has to be the biggest chore in terms of time and effort needed. My kids are not born neatniks, but they do know how to follow a checklist and tidy up.

Takeaway: Even though it’s easier to do yourself, you’ll gain a whole host of benefits if you let your kids do some of the cleaning. This is an important one to start early while it’s still somewhat “fun” so you don’t run into a lot of whining later.

Clean your room checklist for kids
Teaching kids to clean the kitchen
Why teaching your kids to do chores is like paying your mortgage

4. Kids need to know how to accept personal responsibility

This one is a little less concrete, but just as critical for kids to learn. Kids need to know that the actions they take matter. If we parents always swoop in to do things for them and fix their mistakes, they’ll never learn to do things for themselves.

This can be as simple as not telling the kids when it’s time to do their laundry (they need to notice when the basket is full or they’re almost out of things to wear) to not giving multiple reminders to do homework (he’ll have to tell the teacher why he doesn’t have it).

This doesn’t mean we don’t help our kids or teach them how to plan ahead.
We still coach them through new situations. But it does mean that we expect them to keep their own commitments and responsibilities. And when they don’t, we often sympathize with them (without rescuing them from the consequences).

The best part about this approach is you don’t have to nag and badger your kids to do things. Instead, you let the natural consequences kick in.

I’m not a perfect mom and I don’t have it all figured out.

But I can say that my kids are on their way to being independent, self-sufficient adults. Best part – I don’t have to do it all.

What life skills are you teaching your kids?


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Welcome. I’m Sarah!


I’m the creator of Decluttering School (formerly known as Early Bird Mom), lover of organized spaces, encourager to women and mom to four boys. Click here to read more!

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